Practical tips
Short, usable guidance on preparing your case, managing communication, protecting finances, and dozens of things no one thinks to tell you.
Free & private
Divorce YOUR Way.
A free, private group for people thriving through divorce on their own terms. Practical tips, legal how-tos, and therapeutic strategies — delivered by someone who understands the whole picture.
For men and women navigating divorce, custody, or recovery after divorce.
What’s inside
Real tips, real strategy, and a room full of people who get it.
The group exists because too many people go into divorce with nothing but Google and a group chat. You deserve better information than that.
Legal how-tos
Plain-language breakdowns of the paperwork, the process, and the words lawyers use — so you can make informed choices at every stage.
Therapeutic strategies
Tools for the parts that don’t show up in court: anxiety spirals, co-parent drama, grief, and the slow work of rebuilding confidence.
What makes this different
It’s free because it needs to be.
Divorce is expensive in ways you don’t expect. The people who most need practical guidance are often the least able to pay for another professional on top of the attorneys and therapists they’re already juggling.
Divorce YOUR Way exists to level the playing field. Everything shared in the group is meant to help you get from where you are to where you want to be — whether or not you ever pay me a dollar.
Who the group is for
- People considering divorce who want to be prepared
- People with an active case who need more than Google can offer
- People post-decree who are figuring out what’s next
- People who just want to stop feeling so alone in it
Free & useful essays
A few pieces worth reading first.
Written from real conversations with real clients. Names changed, patterns kept.
The five documents you need before you file anything.
Start quietly. These are the paperwork and records that save people weeks of stress the moment a case opens.
How to write a message that won’t hurt your case.
A short template and a longer mindset shift. What to send, what to delete, and what to never put in writing.
What to do when the exchange goes sideways.
A simple protocol for the moment your kid ends up in the middle. Protect them first, document second, react never.
Full essays drop in the private group as they’re published.
Request access to the group.
Tell me a little about where you are and I’ll send you the invite. The group is private, moderated, and kept small on purpose.